04
Jan 2023
    Most of us are in touch with the outside world, but very few are in
    touch with their internal world. Reading helps you to tap into that
    internal world, that void and emptiness which cannot be described in
    words. We feel unsatisfied and low when our life lacks purpose and
    direction, reading can inspire you and help you understand yourself
    better. The characters in a book, whether fiction or non-fiction, give us
    insights into our own character. The characters you relate to and the
    characters you hate make you understand what your own likes and
    dislikes are. Throughout our life, we come across various challenges,
    during these times we turn to our family and friends for support and
    advice. Friends and family can provide monetary and moral support but
    the advice they give can often be limited and based on their own past
    experiences. Apart from turning to your close circle, you could find the
    answers to your numerous questions and ways to face challenges in
    books. Books tell us stories and narratives which are different from the
    ones we would otherwise hear from our friends and family. 
    Decisions should be made after taking multiple perspectives into
    consideration. Life is an extremely long journey, the more knowledge
    you acquire the more confident you feel about your opinions and
    judgements. Every time you sit down to read, you will realize how little
    you know and how much more there is to learn and understand.
    Reading humbles you as a person, and you realise that the knowledge
    you possess is never adequate. 
    Conversations and discussions are more rich and fulfilling between
    readers. This comes as no surprise, as readers are the ones with an
    open mind and have a number of words to express themselves. People
    who do not read have topics which are limited to everyday life and
    incidents. Whereas, readers have a variety of topics and always have
    something new to bring to the table. 
    Studying for exams from textbooks and going through office papers in
    the work environment should not be the only reading you do, reading
    has to be extended to fiction and non-fiction books. Shining at school
    and work but failing miserably at a personal level is not the right way to
    go about life. People constantly complain about work and study stress
    without realising that the solution lies right in front of them – a book.
    Reading is the ultimate stress buster and the benefits are numerous to
    the reader. 
    No need to hire a therapist, reading is the oldest form of self-therapy.
    Serotonin levels rise when we engage in deep reading, as reading
    requires concentration, understanding and visualising. It is an
    extremely calming activity who’s benefits are similar to those derived
    from meditation. Whenever you are feeling down, you will instantly
    feel better after reading. It enhances your questioning power, the
    entire activity calms you down, makes you stop and think. It makes you
    ask questions. 
    We live in a world where people are constantly exposed to external
    stimuli (social media, television) . You need something that caters to
    your internal stimuli (thoughts, emotions, feelings). You do not
    necessarily have to purchase and read bestsellers, you can pick up
    books which are interesting and appealing to you. What needs to be
    remembered is that reading is an exercise you do by and for yourself.
    Reading any genre and subject that interests you and keeps you
    engaged is important. 
    Reading is a solution to many problems that people face in the 21 st
    century such as depression and anxiety. Expensive therapists should
    not be the go to solution for a problem that can be solved by picking up
    the habit of reading. 
    During the COVID years we came to realise that travel restrictions had
    confined us to our homes, people who were frequent travellers and
    globetrotters had to be at home which was extremely difficult and their
    only solace was reading. Many people who had lost the habit of reading
    picked it up again. What they have understood is that books are a
    convenient way to travel the world mentally, not every individual can
    afford to travel whenever and however they want due to work
    commitments and insufficient funds. Reading gives your mind the
    opportunity to learn about various communities, cultures, clothing and
    food located in any part of the world. 
    Sometimes we feel and think so much but we cannot find the words to
    express ourselves. Habitual readers are seldom faced with this
    dilemma, they have a number of words in mind to express themselves.
    Physical and mental exercise go hand in hand. Hitting the gym thrice a
    week and spending an hour reading should both be a part of our
    schedules. 
    Recently I read the book – ‘Dreams from my Father’ by Barack Obama
    and I had some takeaways from the book which are completely
    personal and left an impression on me. First of all, I understood that
    not everyone has a perfect life and clean slate, what matters is how you
    respond to the curveballs which life throws at you. In the book, Obama
    narrates how difficult and confusing his childhood and family life was,
    this makes you admire and appreciate his achievements more. It makes
    you think how an individual with all that confusion, absence of a father
    and years of being in the dark about his own roots and bloodline still
    manages to go ahead and achieve so much. Just reading about it can
    make you feel sad, imagine living through it. Once I finished reading the
    book I understood that the former President is called great for a
    reason. Obama always has a winning smile and is a relentless optimist. I
    started the book with a vague idea about the former President Obama,
    but I finished reading the book with an entire different mindset about
    him and life as a whole.
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